Should you send her flowers?

Sending flowers to that special lady can sometimes feel like a daunting task. Especially when you are in a new relationship and you’re not too sure about what to send or when. Fortunately, there are a few great tips to help you decide when it’s time to place that flower order.

If you have been in a relationship for several years or your are married, then it’s customary to celebrate your anniversary with flowers and other gifts or even a romantic dinner. After an extended amount of time together, you should know her likes and dislikes as well as when she celebrates her birthday. Birthdays are also great opportunities for sending flowers.

If you are in a new relationship and you’re not sure about when to shower her with gifts, take it slow. You don’t want to come across too strong. When you meet for your first date, it’s polite to present her with a modest bouquet. Avoid red flowers like red roses since they are the most romantic and passionate of all. Choose pink flowers or a mixed bouquet instead. After your first date, you can send flowers along with a note saying how much you enjoyed your date. Again, avoid red flowers at this stage.

Depending on the stage of your relationship by the time Valentine’s Day rolls around, you can send red roses, other red flowers, or even a pink bouquet if you prefer. Remember to include something like chocolates or a cute stuffed animal to make your flower delivery that much more special.

Spontaneous flower deliveries are also a great way of showing her that you care. For new relationships, keep it as simple as possible. If you go all out during the early stages of your relationship, you won’t have much room for improvement. If you know what kind of flower your lady loves, you can send a bouquet consisting solely of these blooms or you could at least include this type of flower in the bouquet.

Finally, it’s naive to think of any relationship as flawless. Arguments and even fights occur from time to time. It’s how you kiss and make up that counts. Flowers are perfect for sending a message – including a sincere apology. When you send a bunch of flowers to say sorry, make sure that you include a message that will show her just how sincere you are. Don’t let that be the end of it. Treat her to something more like a romantic dinner where you can reconcile your differences.